My own assistant for memory, notes, personal finances and calendar, which I talk to over Telegram and a web interface. Assistants that advertise memory keep it somewhere you cannot read or take with you. I wanted the opposite: delete the app tomorrow and everything it knows still opens in a text editor.
So its memory is a folder of markdown notes kept in Git, and the application is a replaceable layer on top. Anything it cannot undo, like changing a financial record or sending a message, waits for my approval first. Backups run on their own, and it all costs under $20 a month.